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Wisdom From Jack Canfield

“It took a lot of years for me to get to this point… When I really understood that my primary aim was to feel and experience joy, then I began to do only those things that brought me joy.  I have a saying “if it ain’t fun, don’t do it!”    -Jack Canfield, motivational speaker and bestselling author

I love this quote and try to live by it.  I’ve found it to be true throughout my life.  When I enjoy something, and go in that direction, I am much happier and more energized.  It makes sense but so often we do things that we dislike out of some sense of obligation.  Thanks Jack for your wisdom.

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What Kind of Life Do you WANT? Part Two

Success is the ability to live your life, the way you want to live it, doing what you enjoy most, surrounded by people you admire and respect.“    -Brian Tracy, motivational speaker

Research shows that what makes people the happiest is not having lots of money to acquire lots of things, it’s having the time and energy to enjoy the people we care most about and living life on our own terms. Running your own business is a rare and unique opportunity to help you live your ideal life.The first step is knowing what you want.

Answer these questions to help you tap into your values and create your ideal life:

The Excelerated Success Values Assessment ™

  1. When were you at your happiest?
  2. What makes you the happiest now?
  3. When do you have fun?
  4. What gives you peace of mind?
  5. What are your three core beliefs in life?
  6. What do you enjoy most in life?
  7. If you have children, do you want to be close to them?  If so, what are the best ways you can develop and maintain a close relationship with them?
  8. If you have a spouse or significant other, what kind of relationship do you want with them?   What do you value in this relationship?
  9. What are some of your fondest memories as a child?
  10. What values do those memories reflect?
  11. How can your behaviors consistently reflect those values?
  12. Why did you go into business for yourself?
  13. In your business, what do you most enjoy doing?
  14. If you were to die tomorrow, looking back on your life, what would you have done differently?  What would you have missed out on?

Look at your responses.  They depict the kind of life you want to live.  What are the 5 steps you need to take in order to shift into living life more on your own terms?  One of those shifts needs to be streamlining your business and delegating more to free up some time and energy to live your values.

True happiness and success comes when you are living your life on your own terms.  I encourage you to complete the questions above and post your 5 steps on a vision board that you will study daily.  As you start making these shifts, and living your values, you will undoubtedly become happier, more fulfilled, and more successful in both life and business.

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What Kind of Life Do you WANT? Part One

As I delve deep into writing my new book on how to grow a profitable business you enjoy, and still have a life, and as I coach more and more successful entrepreneurs, I am struck by how imperative it is to define the life you want to live.  Without conscious thought to our values, we often go on autopilot.  We drift through our days trying to keep all the balls in the air.  Meanwhile, much of what we care most about- such as staying fit and healthy, spending lots of time with the people we care most about, having FUN- passes us by.

Living life on your own terms begins with awareness of the life you want to live.  You must know what you want before you can have what you want.  Stay tuned for the next blog that will help you create your ideal life.

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How Does Overwork Effect Us?

As I’m writing my book on how to grow a small business and still live life on your own terms, I’ve been studying the effects of overwork.  It will come as no surprise that overwork creates chronic stress.  And chronic stress has debilitating consequences.

Numerous data demonstrates a host of health problems associated with stress.  Did you know that studies show that stress is more closely related to heart disease and to cancer than smoking is?  A Harvard study showed that men who experience chronic anxiety are six times more likely than contented men to die from a sudden heart attack.  Furthermore, data links stress to a whole host of emotional and physical disorders, including ulcers, migraines, back pain, depression, anxiety disorders, and insomnia.  In fact, a recent study of 2,000 workers showed that those who work eleven hours a day or more had double the risk of developing depression compared with those who worked eight hours a day or less.  Another study of 10,000 workers found higher levels of both anxiety and depression in those who put in the most overtime.

In other words, the “freedom” entrepreneurs seek when they start their business is replaced with work taking over their lives.  The “success” they seek is robbing them of many of things they care about- such as good health and having time and energy to spend with the people they care most about.

Does it have to be this way?  No, it doesn’t.  But entrepreneurs need a new road map.  And that road map includes streamlining and systematizing your business as quickly as possible.  Something I’ve learned from coaching entrepreneurs is that the motivation to streamline a business comes from visualizing the life you really want to live and believing you can create that life.

Stay tuned for my article next week to help you visualize and create the life you want.

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